Wednesday, February 25, 2009

I Hate de Way u treat me

Suddenly have this kind feeling whereby I damn hate my supervisor….whatever I do he want to bother abt it….sometimes really feel irritate….. I want to said it loud here tat" you are so damn annoyed me mine ur own business thank you…."as long as I get my things done in time without any error or mistake there isn’t anything that u need to worry of….I’m not small kid anymore & most important is tat I know the consequences…..what you do I didn’t and never comment on it b’coz I know what is the minimum respect your superior….i don’t say a word doesn’t mean I do know….it is jus I ignore it…..on the other hand you think that I’m stupid and easy to control….too bad your prediction is so so wrong ……when I react you totally out of ur expectation….(to be a good superior u gotta set a good example only other will follow what you said…you better read tis before you wanna say anything….)


Leadership can be defined as one's ability to get others to willingly follow. Every organization needs leaders at every level. Leaders can be found and nurtured if you look for the following character traits.


A leader with vision has a clear, vivid picture of where to go, as well as a firm grasp on what success looks like and how to achieve it. But it’s not enough to have a vision; leaders must also share it and act upon it.A leader must be able to communicate his or her vision in terms that cause followers to buy into it. He or she must communicate clearly and passionately, as passion is contagious.



A good leader must have the discipline to work toward his or her vision single-mindedly, as well as to direct his or her actions and those of the team toward the goal. Action is the mark of a leader.



A leader does not suffer “analysis paralysis” but is always doing something in pursuit of the vision, inspiring others to do the same.Integrity is the integration of outward actions and inner values. A person of integrity is the same on the outside and on the inside. Such an individual can be trusted because he or she never veers from inner values, even when it might be expeditious to do so. A leader must have the trust of followers and therefore must display integrity.Honest dealings, predictable reactions, well-controlled emotions, and an absence of tantrums and harsh outbursts are all signs of integrity. A leader who is centered in integrity will be more approachable by followers.Dedication means spending whatever time or energy is necessary to accomplish the task at hand. A leader inspires dedication by example, doing whatever it takes to complete the next step toward the vision. By setting an excellent example, leaders can show followers that there are no nine-to-five jobs on the team, only opportunities to achieve something great.



Magnanimity means giving credit where it is due. A magnanimous leader ensures that credit for successes is spread as widely as possible throughout the company. Conversely, a good leader takes personal responsibility for failures. This sort of reverse magnanimity helps other people feel good about them and draws the team closer together. To spread the fame and take the blame is a hallmark of effective leadership.Leaders with humility recognize that they are no better or worse than other members of the team. A humble leader is not self-effacing but rather tries to elevate everyone. Leaders with humility also understand that their status does not make them a god. Mahatma Gandhi is a role model for Indian leaders, and he pursued a “follower-centric” leadership role.Openness means being able to listen to new ideas, even if they do not conform to the usual way of thinking. Good leaders are able to suspend judgment while listening to others’ ideas, as well as accept new ways of doing things that someone else thought of. Openness builds mutual respect and trust between leaders and followers, and it also keeps the team well supplied with new ideas that can further its vision.



Creativity is the ability to think differently, to get outside of the box that constrains solutions. Creativity gives leaders the ability to see things that others have not seen and thus lead followers in new directions. The most important question that a leader can ask is, “What if … ?



Possibly the worst thing a leader can say is, “I know this is a dumb question ... ”A sense of humor is vital to relieve tension and boredom, as well as to defuse hostility. Effective leaders know how to use humor to energize followers. Humor is a form of power that provides some control over the work environment. And simply put, humor fosters good camaraderie.Intrinsic traits such as intelligence, good looks, height and so on are not necessary to become a leader. Anyone can cultivate the proper leadership traits.

so now what do you think are qualified to lead me....too bad you not well prepare at all..

1 comment:

~May Lee~ said...

hey gurl.. that's true.. really good comment about it! reminds of how he treat both of us... really a good experience of it... anyway, keep steady n take care ya.. :)